I found this at
Forbes.com, and I love the concepts. I’m trying to reconcile how I feel about my
daughter’s antics. She’s more than a moocher; she’s a user and a liar. However,
I still love her and will miss her, but I have to withdraw or I will burst into
flames from frustration and anger.
From
the original Bill of Rights to the ethical precepts put forth by PETA (People
for the Ethical Treatment of Animals), Americans have historically, if
imperfectly, embraced the notion that living creatures are entitled to certain
rights.
Given
this esteemed American tradition, it is surprising that so few have expressed
interest in the rights of parents of adult children.
Here,
I submit 10 rights that I believe may contribute to the overall health and
well-being of parents.
1. The Right to Be Free from
Abuse. Some
parents find themselves the victims of abuse by
their children, physical as well as verbal or psychological. In all cases, the
abuser’s goal is to gain or perpetuate control over another.
Abuse
is never acceptable. If you find yourself in an abusive situation, set limits
with your child. End abusive phone conversations, refuse to
give time, money, or advice until you are treated appropriately and don’t meet
with the child alone.